Being different is being cool |
Do you ever felt to be neglected in group of people or in a group of friends? Probably some of you would say ” Sometimes” or “I would never felt that.”. Neglection is a kind of discrimination or another sign of dis respectfulness.Sometimes I would fell neglected if some of my friends would leave me or she/he doesn’t want to be my friend. First, I say to myself that they maybe busy or whatever,until the day I found out that they choose another person that would exchange me,cooler than me,smarter than me,enjoyable than me. They all change their attitudes towards me, the way they communicate to me,the way they look at me. Until today I would feel that same old feelings that turn me into another person.
Now let’s go to the title : Be an Apple in the Group of Oranges. It’s a common phrase that would we sometimes hear. Some people will change attitude if they adapt their environment.It is associated with neglection for me, Why? Because the way people act towards you is from the surroundings that they roam on.So what do you do to avoid these. A simple way only Be an APPLE in the group of Oranges. you don’t have to be an orange to join them your an apple a unique and outstanding creature.It is the basics of life.
A concrete example of it is this: You belong to a circle of friends that you first met in work,but later on you recognized that they change their attitudes,the way they interact to others. So this decision came in your mind,would you change everything on yourself to be like them or stay as you.
Now the choice would be on the hand of the person who would decide. But never forget that an Apple is always an Apple and an orange Could not be an Apple.
This Blog is Dedicated for MS. Ruby Rey Royo.